There are times in everyone's life when we feel abandoned and disillusioned, and well, forsaken. By everyone including God.
Now I'm not an overly religious person. I prefer to practice my faith in my own way and on my own time, because I believe that if there truly is a force out there greater than the universe, well, then he or she or it, would simply prefer a more direct and informal relationship with the beings it shepherds over a cult like routine worship that pays lip service to the gospels that are intended to be practiced every day.
With all that said though, there have been a lot of days in the past few weeks where I've wanted to simply shake God for delivering such pain and suffering to me and the people in my life. If everyone would just live by the golden rule (which by the way isn't exactly religious in any way), then we could all live peacefully, and happily in our own utopia. It seems completely unreasonable to me, that we've been pitched against each other like pawns in a really lose lose game of chess between good and evil. The innocent bystanders in those wretched games end up living and suffering with anxiety, depression, scizophrenia, and any other list of ailments as long as my arm, and maybe even then some.
Yesterday, a coworker I've become rather close to over the past year, was telling me that an absolutely horrendous disease that she suffers with, is getting worse. Both of us working a country away from each other, there was nothing I could do except to read her words (paraphrased but accurate) "I feel foggy. Just not right. Heart not pumping enough blood or something. Chuck's (her husband) not home til tomorrow. I started getting tremors this weekend, and I guess I never expected them to come on this fast. I broke my kindle. I couldn't open the garbage bin. It all just pissed me off. I just can't stand the idea of someone having to look after me. It just kills me that that's what's ahead of me."
She suffers from a disease called Mitochondrial disease. So rare that only 1 in 4000 people have it. So devastating that in her case it is attacking her heart, her nervous system and her brain. She can develop Parkinson's, Alzheimer's and endless numbers of other conditions simply by having this one disease. And for someone so bright and intelligent, and dedicated and ostentatious to be plagued with something that has no cure while we continue to bark up the cancer tree pouring money at it left and right with no resulting cure all's, it devastates me. What's worse is that she's killing herself to keep her job, and keep her symptoms under wraps for fear of losing her job and her benefits and the financial ruin that will befall her family if that does happen. She's fighting tooth and nail to stay alive so that her family isn't burdened by the cost (both emotional and financial) of her long term care. It makes me appreciate where I live and the health care I receive so much more watching her dig in and fight like Muhammed Ali under a health care system that is so broken and politically disputed. Knowing that the Republicans would sooner see her die than collect the healthcare she needs in order to protect the "constitutional rights" of insurance companies?
And I realize that there are so many people in the United States suffering from mental illnesses also, who are unable to get the help they need because the cost of medications is skyrocketing above what they can afford to pay with limited benefits.
And it makes me want to shake God, that the idiots have loud voices, and sharp knives, and the smart people have only been given dull, blunt weapons with which to retaliate in this battle.
It makes me want to shake God for praying on the meek and delivering them unbeatable illnesses that drag on for decades.
It makes me want to shake God that he hasn't given me a better opportunity to help these people while not forsaking my family to do it.
It makes me want to shake God that some of us have to choose to live every day, while others choose how to make it harder for us.
It makes me want to shake God, that he has forsaken so many of us, and allowed so many others to flourish.
It just makes me want to shake God.